When your heart burns and you feel like you’re going to die. — Grief is a complex and deeply personal emotion that everyone experiences at some point in their lives. The loss of a loved one, the end of a relationship, a job, or any other significant change or hardship can trigger it. At its core, grief is sadness set on fire. It…

At some point, your life will suck I’m not sure who “they” are, but they say that whatever doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. It’s a nice sentiment, but if you’ve ever gone through a really challenging time, all of the lovely sentiments typically piss you off. However, here’s what…

You’ll never get it all done. I’ve always looked for a better, more efficient way to do everything all my life. That lead me to read and listen to plenty of self-help and productivity information. I still listen to productivity podcasts and follow many of David Allen’s principles of Getting…

A simplified approach to decision making — Decision-making is a necessary part of living an optimal life. It is critical to increasing your chances for success, yet it can also be many people’s downfall. Here is a simplified approach that I’ve used which has always served me well. It’s only five steps, so let’s start. Step 1…

It’s ok to be scared. — If you found this piece before reading the two previous complimentary articles, I’d suggest you read those first, as it will tie in with this final piece in a 3 part series I wrote. Here is part 1: Be Vulnerable, and here is part 2: Live In The Arena. The…

Life should be messy. — I wrote this as a 3 part series, with this piece being part 2. I would advise you to click here, as part 1 has a lot of relevant introductory information that ties directly to this piece. Live in the Arena If you hide in your cave, never producing your…

Brené Brown taught me 1 of 3 lessons. — I watched a Brené Brown presentation entitled The Call To Courage on Netflix. Typically, I am not moved by what I deem unrealistic inspirational talks. You know the ones telling you how wonderful your life and relationships can be if you only do (fill in any ideal here). …

If there is, He/She is not loving at all. — If you opted to read this, congrats on being up for the challenge; as you know, it will be controversial. My quick backstory. I was raised Catholic and went to a Catholic grade school and a Catholic high school. So the indoctrination was real, intense, and over a long duration…

It’s not about you. — Far too often, I hear people saying they want the finer things in life. They are working hard, saving money, and advancing in their careers, all for the sake of one day being able to afford the finer things in life. Well, here’s a fucking surprise for you. The finer…